Help us help aveilim
T’Nuchamu will change lives. With your help, we can ensure participation and minyanim at every shiva, in every corner of the Jewish world.
losing a loved one is hard enough—help us ease their burden.
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T’Nuchamu is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization.
perform the ultimate Chessed
Bring comfort to our neighbors in their hardest moments
Nichum Aveilim is one of the most sacred acts of chessed. When families sit shiva and navigate times of grief, a supportive community presence is priceless.
Earn an incredible zechus by ensuring every shiva home has a full minyan and every aveil has support and comfort in their time of need.
The Talmud (Sotah 14a) teaches that just as Hashem comforts mourners, so too must we emulate Him.
Having a minyan at a shiva allows the mourners to recite Kaddish, elevating the soul of the departed and bringing them merit.
Knowing that others care – whether by providing meals, helping arrange a minyan, or simply being present – lightens the burden.
We as the Jewish people have always rallied together, ensuring no one faces moments of loss and grief alone.
How T’nuchamu works
Someone close to the aveilim uploads details about the deceased and mourners, including burial information, shiva schedules, minyan times, and meal arrangements.
T’Nuchamu then ensures that volunteers and visitors receive timely and accurate updates, organizing minyanim seamlessly to alleviate the burden from aveilim.
T’nuchamu volunteers can
Volunteer & Pre-Register
Sign up on a recurring or case-by-case basis to ensure every shiva house has a timely, complete minyan.
Get Real-Time Updates
Get accurate notifications on minyan changes, aveilim addresses, and other important details.
Stay Up-to-date
Access new shiva/nichum listings from your selected cities or shuls worldwide.
Join minyanim
Receive advance reminders when a shiva is concluding, ensuring you don’t miss an opportunity for nichum aveilim.
”Everybody has the best of intentions when it comes to taking care of Aveilim, but unfortunately, we have a very busy world. Despite the best intentions, people find themselves waiting for a Minyan when they never thought they would.”
”When everyone thinks that someone else is going to show up, then no one shows up.”
”The other week, there was a Bais Avel of someone in our community who single-handedly called people every single day for a week and stood outside the shul to get people to come. And he put it together. But it was rough.”
”I discovered even where I live in Ramat Beit Shemesh, which is a totally Jewish enclave, and getting a Minyan should not be difficult at all….and yet people find it difficult to find a Minyan.
The reason is that there is no organization.”
“It’s a wonderful program to be part of and support.
The Chesed that you can do….is something that cannot be described.”
“A basic feature of being a kehilla, a community, is being there for people in times of distress. And that’s the function of this entire platform: To simply know when people are in distress and give us the opportunity to be there for them.”
“There is a wonderful way now that is being developed so that Aveilim will be able to have a minyan at the various times they need it throughout the day…..and that’s why this app is SO important.”
”The word “T’nuchamu” is part of a Pasuk in Yeshaya which says, ‘Min Hashamyin T’nuchamu’… T’nuchamu.org can become the city that gathers together and commits to helping others in their most vulnerable times ”
“We should all participate in making T’nuchamu the success that it can be, so that everyone finds strength, finds community and finds comfort.”
”I strongly encourage everyone who can to sign up and participate financially…lets join and participate in this incredible global initiative called T’nuchamu, and IYH Hashem should give us the ultimate Nechama of Nachmu Nachmu Ami Yomer Elokaychem.”
“We encourage everyone to participate in this important endeavor….Being a part of this incredible initiative not only enables us to help one another, but it enables us to resemble the Ribono Shel Olam in the purest, holiest of fashions.”
T’Nuchamu…is an act of pure and holy גמילות חסדים, and I endorse it wholeheartedly…When we help an אבל to fulfill their obligations to the נשמה of their dear ones, we also acquire the זכות of בלע המוות לנצח. May ה׳ eliminate death and erase the tears of sorrow from our faces forever. Amen
As our communities grow, the need for initiatives becomes greater. I fully give my Haskama to the T’Nuchamu project. It is a necessary effort to ensure that every avel…feels the support of the community. It also brings great benefit…strengthening the bonds of Chessed and Achdut. This is…an important step forward for Klal Yisrael.
“T’Nuchamu is doing a true chessed by trying to relieve some of the burden that the aveilim are carrying during this very difficult time in their lives.”
Eternal rewards
The Gemara (Shabbos 152b) states that when a person performs Chessed for the deceased and mourners, they merit heavenly protection and long life.
The Zohar teaches that comforting a mourner and helping them recite Kaddish creates an immense Zechus for both the Niftar and those who assist.
The Chofetz Chaim writes that every minyan where Kaddish is recited helps open the gates of heaven for the departed soul.
Honor a loved one with a virtual plaque
Donate one time or in monthly payments and customize a memorial on our digital dedication wall.
T’nuchamu is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization.
We Also welcome donations of any amount in support of our work.
T’nuchamu is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization.
Help Us Keep T’Nuchamu Alive!
We need your help to continue facilitating this global initiative
How It All Began
It is not the Jewish way to need to beg for a minyan. Yet, time and again, mourners find a recurring struggle to put one together.
Seeing this burden on aveilim sparked T’nuchamu—a platform designed to make this vital mitzvah more accessible, organized, and reliable.
The problem is bigger than many realize.
It affects not just small, out-of-town communities but also major Jewish hubs. Tnuchamu is here to solve this challenge on a global scale.
